Putting People First with Michelle Haimowitz
Summary
Michelle Haimowitz, the executive director of Holy Ground PBC, discusses their mission to promote generational change and disrupt systems that suppress at-risk populations, specifically women and children. The program is a two to four-year program that focuses on building trust and creating generational change. They provide direct client care and have on-site resources such as a community suite and an afterschool program called the Learning Tree. The program addresses generational trauma and adverse childhood experiences (ACEs) through ACE-informed counseling and therapy. Michelle shares success stories of clients who have gained confidence, achieved academic success, and secured stable housing. Holy Ground PBC is privately funded through grants, community partnerships, and generous donors. The conversation covers topics such as post-case management, affordable housing, dual diagnosis, client-centered approach, good fit, language and vocabulary, education, housing crisis, and ways to help.
Takeaways
- Holy Ground PBC promotes generational change and disrupts systems that suppress at-risk populations.
- They provide direct client care and have on-site resources such as a community suite and an afterschool program called the Learning Tree.
- The program addresses generational trauma and adverse childhood experiences (ACEs) through ACE-informed counseling and therapy.
- Holy Ground PBC is privately funded through grants, community partnerships, and generous donors. Post-case management is provided to clients leaving the program to ensure sustainability and connect them with resources.
- Affordable housing is a challenge to obtain, but some clients have successfully secured Section 8 housing.
- The program focuses on client-centered approach and finding a good fit for both the client and the program.
- Language and vocabulary are important in treating individuals with respect and avoiding stigmatization.
- Education is a key factor in expanding opportunities for unhoused individuals.
- The housing crisis in Florida is a major obstacle for individuals and families.
- Ways to help include being empathetic, treating unhoused individuals with respect, and getting involved in programs and organizations that support them.
Titles
- Success Stories of Empowered Clients
- Addressing Generational Trauma and ACEs The Housing Crisis in Florida
- Ways to Help Unhoused Individuals
Keywords
Holy Ground PBC, generational change, at-risk populations, direct client care, community suite, Learning Tree, generational trauma, ACEs, ACE-informed counseling, therapy, success stories, stable housing, grants, community partnerships, donors, post-case management, affordable housing, dual diagnosis, client-centered approach, good fit, language and vocabulary, education, housing crisis, ways to help
Transcript
Hey everyone, welcome to the second
episode of the Bloom Scrolling Podcast.
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:We appreciate all your support so far.
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:We're super excited to continue doing this
with y 'all.
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:Today we're going to be interviewing
Michelle Hamowitz.
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:She's the executive director of Holy
Ground PBC.
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:Their mission is to promote generational
change and disrupt systems that suppress
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:at -risk populations, which sounds super
badass.
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:So thanks again for tuning in and we hope
you enjoy the episode.
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:Here you go.
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:Love like we're done
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:Let's stay awake under the stars Pretend
the world is ours And love like we're
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:dying
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:I actually don't know very much at all.
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:What I do know is that your program's in
Riviera Beach, which I didn't know, which
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:is really cool because I used to live in
Riviera Beach and I know like that kind of
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:demographic.
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:So basically how I want to start is who
are you and what do you do?
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:Okay, so I'm Michelle Hamowitz and I'm
currently the executive director of Holy
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:Ground PBC.
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:Our biggest goals are to promote
generational change and disrupt the
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:systems that suppress our most at -risk
populations, specifically women and
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:children.
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:How did you get started in this work?
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:Social work or this job particularly?
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:Yeah, like what were you doing before?
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:And then how did that lead you to what
you're doing right now?
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:So, um...
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:I don't know, my dad always said I wanted
to save the world when I was a kid.
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:And while that might not be in my current
purview, I've always really loved social
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:work and helping others.
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:So I went to Florida State, got my
master's degree in social work, did some
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:internships internationally, came home,
found a job in Broward serving veterans
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:experiencing homelessness.
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:I was really struggling, you know, just.
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:I felt like maybe social work wasn't for
me.
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:I felt out of touch and just burnt out, I
guess, you know?
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:And my husband actually found this job for
me because he was sick of me coming home
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:from work, just feeling so lost.
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:And he was like, you know, I don't know if
you're qualified, but give it a shot.
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:I applied.
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:I got an interview and I just knew from
from then on, it was going to be amazing.
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:It just felt like family.
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:authentic and true.
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:And I think those are really important
qualities in the job.
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:So that's kind of how I found this and the
rest was history.
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:That's amazing.
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:That's super cool.
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:Where, why didn't I know you like five
years ago when I was a homeless veteran?
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:Are you connected?
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:Do you have percentage?
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:No, I was national guard.
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:And like I tried to fight it a little bit
and then I just kind of gave up.
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:But if you ever want any resources, I've
got a guy who is amazing.
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:He can really help if you're interested.
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:Hell, yeah.
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:That's super cool.
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:I guess we could probably link that stuff
to in the show notes for anybody else that
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:is experienced.
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:Yeah, any veterans experience in homeless
veterans in general needing any type of
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:resources.
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:It's a breeze to try to get veterans
percentages, money from the government,
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:education, housing, subsidized housing.
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:Home ownership programs, all types of
stuff.
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:So if you've got anyone, you know, that's
not my current situation, but I can
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:definitely help connect you with somebody
who could help.
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:Yeah, we'll put it out there.
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:Is that countrywide help or just in
Florida?
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:Yeah, I don't see why not.
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:It might not be it.
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:I may not know all the resources
countrywide, but this is stuff that is
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:pretty synonymous on the federal level,
especially with like.
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:voucher housing vouchers and disability
connections.
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:So yeah.
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:Cool.
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:I wanted to ask too, how direct is your
client care?
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:Like how hands on are you with the women
that come through your program?
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:Well, they live here.
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:We have eight units here on this campus
that I'm on right now, which one of the
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:apartments is used as our community suite.
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:So our clients can come in if they need
some quiet.
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:you know, place to apply for a job or have
an interview or meet with our case
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:manager.
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:We make it very welcoming in this
community suite so they can feel
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:comfortable coming in anytime.
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:We have like a pantry and a fridge and you
know, a lot of donations often we'll put
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:out.
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:And if someone wants the code to get
inside, they'll come inside, they'll do
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:what they need and leave.
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:So very direct, I guess.
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:That's cool.
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:What does your day to day look like?
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:Oh goodness, I feel like it's so
different.
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:And social work in general, it's always
such a different day.
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:I think that's why I love it so much and
really just bringing it down to the
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:mission.
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:But I guess a typical day, a couple
different things, a lot of networking,
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:going out and meeting community partners.
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:Every week for the past three weeks, we've
had site visits every Friday.
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:So for people who are interested in our
program, who want to come visit us.
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:We'll set it up so they can meet with our
case manager and just our staff in
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:general.
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:So those are some days, professional
lunches, which is strange to me as well.
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:It's very new.
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:Timesheets, a lot of timesheets, hours,
signing off checks and paperwork.
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:I really do miss the, I guess the case
management portion of it because I've kind
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:of been taken away from that a little bit
because I have to have.
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:you know, like 90 foot view from above,
like someone has to be steering the ship.
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:A lot of pressure on that side over there
steering the ship as well.
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:So there are definitely days where I miss
case management, just sitting down with a
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:client, helping them figure out what they
need and what direction they want to go
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:in.
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:So really just every day is different,
truly.
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:That's really cool.
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:I'm looking at swapping to social work
major too, for that same reason.
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:I work with...
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:direct clients to him as a detox counselor
at Harmony.
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:So just right in there and in acute detox,
like you never know what's going to
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:happen.
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:Like, seriously.
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:Yeah, it can get a little wild.
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:Yeah.
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:So being in the being in the field, I
learned that like social work is probably
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:the best way to lean to, you know, because
that opens so many different avenues, you
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:know, like you're doing veterans.
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:Yeah, exactly.
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:So that's kind of the goal there.
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:And we need more men.
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:We do.
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:I'm few and far between, I've noticed.
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:You are.
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:I don't know why that is.
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:Are we out of touch?
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:I don't know the reason.
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:In the overview, you were talking about
the learning tree and how a lot of the
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:women are single mothers and they have
children.
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:Can you talk about that and how your
program addresses generational trauma?
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:Okay, so those are big, giant questions.
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:I'll kind of give you a back.
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:of our program and I'll don't even get
distracted.
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:I'm gonna try to get into the learning
tree too.
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:So here's the spiel.
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:So basically we are a two to four year
program which is quite different in the
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:community.
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:Most programs are about 90 days or three
months.
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:And what we found is there's a lot of
turnaround.
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:It's like a revolving door.
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:You have clients come in, they get
services, they leave and they come right
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:back.
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:They're right back on the doorstep needing
just as much help or if not more than they
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:needed before.
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:So we've really found it takes a
significant time not only to build trust,
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:but to create generational change as you
can imagine.
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:So like I said, it's a two to four year
program.
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:All of our women, all of our moms are
required to either work or go to school.
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:I tell everybody progress is not linear.
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:It does not happen in a straight line and
everyone's journey is different.
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:And my whole point is, is if you leave
this program better than you came here,
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:I'm happy.
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:You know, if you're, if we want you to
leave here and not have to go to another
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:program, depend on another community
resource, we want you to be independent
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:and sustainable.
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:And we want the same for your kids.
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:And so on our other campus, the Learning
Tree, we have, just like we have a
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:community suite here, one of our
apartments over at our WALS campus is used
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:as the Learning Tree.
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:It's an afterschool program, it's an
onsite tutoring center, and it's
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:phenomenal.
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:It's run by two volunteers, Pat and
Ginger.
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:These girls like PB and J, I swear.
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:They're amazing.
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:When I first got this job, I thought they
were paid employees because they were here
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:so much.
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:So dedication, obvious.
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:But anyway, so the kids will come in and
they run a program every Tuesdays and
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:Thursdays.
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:During the summer, it's more, they do a
lot of excursions, extracurriculars.
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:And what is so cool about the Learning
Tree is that it's not just, yes, it's...
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:an on -site tutoring center.
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:They provide one -on -one attention to the
kids.
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:They'll help parents understand the report
cards.
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:They'll call teachers if they're finding
that a student needs a little extra push
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:in a certain way.
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:But not only that, they teach the children
emotional intelligence and emotional
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:understanding, which is like far and few
between, I feel.
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:And to learn that from such a young age,
like that's spectacular.
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:So they have what's called the learning
tree.
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:And every time that a child does something
nice or empathetic or encourages another
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:student to do that, they get to put their
name on the learning tree.
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:It's very exciting for them as well.
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:And they do all kinds of stuff.
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:They plant gardens, they learn to cook
from the food that they've grown, and it's
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:just wrap around all around a program to
really...
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:just fill all the gaps.
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:You know, it's hard to be a single mom.
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:It's hard to be a parent in general.
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:And especially now with the housing
crisis, to be a single mom on one salary,
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:trying to work, trying to go to school,
trying to better your life.
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:You know, it can sometimes be hard to give
your kids all the stuff they need.
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:So these two volunteers come in and they
really provide those extracurriculars.
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:I mean, we have kids who even on off days,
they're crying.
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:If Pat and Ginger are there, like maybe
even cleaning the learning tree, they're
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:like.
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:crying to go over there.
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:It's ridiculous.
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:It's adorable.
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:So we really are promoting generational
change.
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:And a big focus of ours is actually ACEs,
which are adverse childhood experiences.
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:And many of our clients, many of our moms
come in.
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:It's an amount of 10.
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:You can get 10 ACEs.
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:Most of our moms come upwards of six.
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:And adverse childhood experiences can
negatively affect your ability to function
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:in everyday life in the future.
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:Some things that might have been effective
as a child, maybe some type of
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:manipulation to get survival needs, which
was effective at the time, is no longer
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:effective in everyday life as a parent, as
an employee, as a student, whatever it
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:might be.
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:And so our big goal is to help our clients
understand ACEs, understand their trauma.
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:And once you can look at it with a clear
view, it's pretty incredible what can
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:happen.
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:You know, you're able to recognize the
triggers, you're able to recognize the
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:traumas and they're able to avoid doing it
or avoid teaching that to their children.
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:You know what I mean?
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:So we have ACE informed counseling.
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:So our moms are required to attend therapy
sessions twice a month.
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:And if I could suggest anything to
everybody on this planet, it would be
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:therapy.
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:I don't know if you all are in therapy,
but if you're not, you should be.
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:Even if, you know,
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:People are like, well, I'm not sad or
nothing's wrong.
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:And I'm like, that's not, that's not what
it's about.
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:Like therapy is helping you to understand
yourself.
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:And it's, it's like life coaching.
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:My therapist would kill me for calling it
that, but I'm telling you like therapy is
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:so important to understand your life, to
understand your reaction, to understand
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:everything.
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:Things that I thought were intrinsic or
things that I thought were biological for
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:my behavior.
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:In fact, I realized was simply something
that I learned.
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:Um, so I truly believe that.
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:Ace informed counseling, trauma informed
counseling are crucial for our residents
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:of this program.
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:We're really big believers in a feedback
loop.
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:We're always asking for feedback from our
clients.
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:We want to make sure that this program is
working for them.
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:I am not a professional in their lives.
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:They are.
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:So I always make sure to ask what's
working or what's not working.
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:And the one response that is consistent
across the board is Ms.
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:Monique and her counseling sessions.
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:We've had clients leave the program asking
to continue their therapy.
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:So really effective and really good stuff.
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:That's so cool.
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:I like to see that the trauma -informed
care is going on everywhere.
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:I know that that's something we learned is
really important to focus on and not even
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:up until the last couple of years, which
is wild.
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:But I just want to point out the crazy
parallel is the place that I'm going is a
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:two to four month, not year, two to four
month women's facility where it's a
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:treatment center for substance use
disorder, but their kids can live in
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:there.
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:up to age 12.
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:And there's like nothing right.
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:There's nothing else like that in this
state at least.
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:So I'm really, really excited.
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:And it's cool to hear that we're kind of
doing something similar, you know, helping
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:single moms.
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:Yeah, but like so often overlooked and so
many so under resourced.
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:Is that a little word?
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:I don't know.
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:But yeah, yeah.
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:Under resourced.
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:Under resourced.
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:Yeah.
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:So I just think that's really cool.
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:We're kind of
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:going down the same avenue?
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:It was really hard for me to come from
working with veterans to single moms.
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:It was shocking to me the limited
resources available.
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:I had top metrics at my last position in
regards to getting our veterans housed,
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:connected with services and financial
assistance.
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:And it's shocking to me how I've come from
that environment into this environment
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:where I mean, I'm not sure.
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:you know, how much you know, obviously
you're a veteran, so I hope you do know,
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:but HUD -VASH, which is a section eight
program, so for affordable housing, it was
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:a breeze.
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:You know, you'd advocate for your veteran,
you'd get them into HUD -VASH, they'd have
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:subsidized housing, and it was wonderful.
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:I come here and you're thrown into the
lottery.
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:There's, that's it, and it's crazy.
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:I wish I knew the math behind it, like
what percentage of people who join the
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:waiting list actually get selected.
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:It is so rare.
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:And you'd think that single mothers and
children would be at the top of the list,
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:but it's shocking to me that there's not a
specific designated program like there
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:would be for veterans, for our mothers,
you know, who are birthing the next
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:generation.
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:You know, how are we not providing them
with the best possible resources to create
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:the
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:the best generation, the best children
that we could possibly be.
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:I mean, to think of the learning tree,
right?
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:Who we are developing with our parents as
a team, emotionally intelligent children.
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:I'm sure you guys have seen like, well,
maybe not, I don't know, maybe it's my
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:TikTok, but these TikToks of these young
kids coming out and they're like
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:explaining their emotions or how they feel
as their dad is like yelling at them for
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:something.
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:And I'm looking at this and I'm like,
what?
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:That's amazing.
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:That is a skill that will take you so far
in life, like to be able to, instead of
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:react, to think and then have a reaction.
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:You know, it's, it's not a reaction, you
know, it's thought and it's planned and,
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:and that all comes from emotional
intelligence and raising smart, strong,
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:you know, young adults.
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:This is more pieces.
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:Wait, what was that?
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:I just think there'd be more resources.
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:It would only benefit everybody to have
that taxpayer dollars.
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:I mean, everything.
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:I've always had the thought that, and
maybe this is a little farfetched because
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:I don't love relying on the government,
but shouldn't it be a responsibility of
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:our education system to teach emotional
intelligence?
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:And I've always wondered why that's not a
thing.
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:I'm telling you, a couple years it will
be.
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:People are, I think this new generation,
this Gen Z and all these new generations
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:are very in touch with emotions and like
what life is all about.
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:And so I really think that, I think we'll
see that soon.
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:And I hope so.
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:Because it's, that's crucial.
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:You know, fingers crossed.
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:Do you have any client stories?
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:Any success stories?
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:Oh yeah.
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:Absolutely.
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:It's my favorite part.
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:Like I said, success is not linear.
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:It doesn't happen in a straight line.
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:We have clients who have come into this
program from very different circumstances.
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:They take very different paths.
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:So I'll give you an example.
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:I know she wouldn't mind me sharing her
name, so I am gonna share her name.
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:Her name is Nyree, and she is amazing.
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:She came into this program, not a lot of
direction, very little confidence, self
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:And came to this program just not really
knowing what to do.
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:She was driving illegally, no driver's
license, no insurance, all that good
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:stuff.
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:And we were like, right, okay, you need to
get your driver's license.
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:We can't be letting you drive around
illegally.
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:It's a risk to you, risk to your children,
risk to the environment, whatever.
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:She got her driver's license after a lot
of work and here was a level up.
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:So she got her driver's license, she had
this little level up.
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:And it's this point where she's never
gonna look back at that.
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:She's got her driver's license, she
secured it and her confidence took this
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:boost.
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:And...
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:Slowly but surely, wins like this continue
to happen.
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:And now we've got a client who is, who has
taken a culinary class, has now been
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:placed in an upscale, why do I always
forget the name of this, upscale, what are
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:those fancy neighborhoods called?
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:Why can't I think of one of those fancy
neighborhoods?
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:She's at an upscale restaurant, absolutely
killing the game.
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:And not only that,
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:She's now been offered board of director
roles.
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:She has spoken at events and she's now an
advocate for clients like her who have
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:been nervous about utilizing, you know,
programs like ours.
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:We had a referral from her that emailed us
and was like, you know, I've seen Nyree
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:and I was afraid to do something like
this, but after seeing her huge successes,
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:I want a piece of that.
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:And that's pretty incredible.
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:And that's pretty moving.
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:And then we've had clients who, um, client
came in, no GED, really wasn't sure what
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:she wanted to do, got her GED, got her
medical assistance certification, and is
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:now trying to find a vocation in, or a job
in medical assistance.
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:And it's just, it's incredible to watch
these wins and these clients who have come
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:from a very, a place of very little
confidence to knowing that they are
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:hustling, they are killing the game.
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:They are.
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:opening doors, running through them,
slamming them shut behind them.
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:And I swear to God, they are never looking
back.
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:These clients are just, it's like a level
up.
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:I don't know.
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:Like you can't ever go back.
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:We have a client who came in and was
really nervous about asking about going to
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:school.
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:And it's the same thing I said to y 'all.
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:Like she knows she has to pay rent and,
and, you know, go to work and all.
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:And she was really nervous to talk to us
about possibly doing something part time
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:so that she could go to school part time.
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:And I just was like, this is perfect.
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:You're amazing.
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:Like, don't be nervous to ask for these
things.
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:That's what this program is for.
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:And again, as long as you leave this
program better than you ended up, better
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:than you arrived here, I am happy.
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:We've had clients who come from
experiencing homelessness to leaving our
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:program and becoming homeowners.
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:We have children who have gone from
scoring below academic standard to
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:achieving honor roll.
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:It's, I mean, it's proofs in the pudding,
you know?
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:I mean, it's pretty incredible.
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:So yeah, those are some of the wins and I
could go probably on and on, but those are
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:just a quick snippet of them.
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:What does funding look like?
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:If I think of any more, I reserve the
right to yell them in.
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:Yeah, definitely.
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:Please.
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:Yeah, it's super gratifying.
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:I know the feeling.
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:So it's really exciting to see the
progress and it takes as long as it takes,
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:you know, meet them where they're at.
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:It takes as long as it takes.
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:Yup.
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:That's right.
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:Even baby steps is like better, better
than anything else.
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:So.
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:Okay.
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:Can we just talk about how getting your
documents in on time is a huge win?
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:Paying rent is a huge win.
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:Communicating what you want is a huge win.
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:Are clients learning to advocate for
themselves?
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:We have a client who, she was on her mom's
food stamps, moved into our program, so
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:she has to have her own case.
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:Really nervous to go to the DMV and talk
to them about her case.
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:And our case manager was like, look them
in the eye and speak boldly and advocate
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:for yourself.
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:And she did, she got her own case.
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:And it might seem simple to you or I or to
someone who's looking this on the outside,
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:but this is a girl who couldn't make eye
contact.
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:She couldn't speak above a whisper.
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:and she was in the line of the DMV for
hours, looked them in the face and
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:advocated for her case.
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:Now, I'm only wondering, with this small
win, how many more times is this gonna
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:happen for her?
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:Where she realizes it's in her best
interest to advocate for herself, to be
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:bold, to speak up and advocate.
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:And so these small wins are just simply
growing and growing to develop someone who
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:is confident.
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:assured and just absolutely ready to take
on life.
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:You know, that's, it's the small things
that are huge.
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:That's good stuff.
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:That's good stuff right there.
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:Thank you.
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:I love that.
443
:I love the excitement as you're sharing
that.
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:Like I can tell that you're truly
passionate.
445
:Wait, sorry.
446
:No, I'm sorry.
447
:This guy, one of our community partners
had come in to do a site visit and I just
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:like,
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:I don't know, I get on a roll.
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:I get so hyped about these women and just
like what they do.
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:And he's like, girl, preach it.
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:You sound like you're preaching.
453
:And I was like, God, I just get, I get so
hyped about just what we've got going on
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:here.
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:And I truly believe in the work that we're
doing, you know, give me one second.
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:I have to turn the AC thing off.
457
:It's really loud.
458
:I was asking before, but what does the
funding look like?
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:What do you mean?
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:Like where do our funders come from?
461
:Yeah, like, um,
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:Do you have a foundation behind you?
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:What's happening there?
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:I don't I don't know if I know what I'm
talking about, but I'm just going to roll
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:with it.
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:I'll kind of tell you how it works.
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:So we are not government funded.
468
:While I do very much believe in government
funding and the programs that they have,
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:such as Housing First, which basically
means that no matter your circumstances,
470
:no matter if you have a job, if you have
substance use issues, whatever it is,
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:Housing First.
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:get you into housing, everything else kind
of falls into place after that.
473
:And while that's an incredible program, we
all have our niche.
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:And so because we're not government
funded, we're able to be a little bit more
475
:flexible.
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:Like for example, certain programs and
government funding have to do certain
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:things or accept certain clientele.
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:We can be very flexible with.
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:what we do because we're not stuck to the
same type of rules as government funding
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:would be.
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:So we're privately funded.
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:We have community partners.
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:So we apply for grants in the community.
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:That's why we do some of the site visits.
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:We'll have grantors, which really we
should call them community partners, are
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:coming in to view our program to see if
it's worth funding, basically, and to see
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:if it's a good community partnership.
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:And so we'll get grants through that.
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:And then we have very generous donors who
are willing to take their money and
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:contribute it to our program.
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:We also have a bi -monthly giving program
for those in the community who maybe just
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:want to send like small donations on a bi
-monthly basis.
493
:We'll send you a little no card or remind
you to do it and stuff like that.
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:So we have a lot of different avenues of
funding.
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:We also have a partnership with the court
system for
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:Reunification Family Treatment Court.
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:Basically, we have families who are at
reunification but simply cannot because
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:they do not have a stable housing.
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:So we have a partnership with the court
system so that we have two of the units
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:that we rent out to them so they can help
reunify families.
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:So it's discounted rent and so we have
some income through that.
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:That's cool.
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:We'll link the donation in the show notes.
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:Because people should give.
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:Yeah, I can give you our link.
506
:After the women leave your program, do you
have other community based programs that
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:you refer them to where they can access a
support system?
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:So we have what's called our graduate
program.
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:So three months post.
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:leaving our program, they still receive
case management.
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:They can always be recertified if they
need more or would prefer like longer case
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:management.
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:And the whole goal of this is to make sure
that it's to sustainability, right?
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:We want to make sure that this client can
sustain themselves in the environment.
515
:So we do three months of post -case
management.
516
:We connect them with resources like, so
for example, we have a client leaving
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:right now.
518
:I know I said Section 8 is so hard to get
and like it's a million and one type of
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:thing.
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:One of our clients actually did get it.
521
:And I didn't want to say that at first
because I didn't want it to seem like it
522
:was so easy to get.
523
:But she's been here for a couple years and
she didn't get it, which is like
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:ridiculously exciting.
525
:So she's able to move into affordable
housing.
526
:So this independent living model.
527
:So she's going to leave our program for
three months.
528
:She will still have case management,
therapy, all that good stuff.
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:that comes with our program.
530
:And of course, upon exit, we'll make sure
that she's connected with different
531
:community resources.
532
:So for example, the LIHEAP program, the
low income, low income energy assistance,
533
:I'm missing the H, I don't know, low
income something energy assistance
534
:program.
535
:So basically it subsidizes utilities.
536
:So we'll just make sure that whenever the
client leaves, the mom leaves, the family
537
:leaves, they're able to access resources
that they need.
538
:But like I said, the whole goal is for
them to lead this program and not,
539
:need another intensive program.
540
:So yes, we provide continued case
management and make sure that our families
541
:are sustainable.
542
:Our whole goal is to stop that revolving
door, you know?
543
:And you know, our clients, it's
generational, like generations and
544
:generations of families, you know, are
dependent on programs and do the same
545
:thing that their mom did or their father
did.
546
:And our whole goal is to show them it
doesn't have, it can be like that if you
547
:want it to be like that, whatever you
want, you know, that's client centered.
548
:There's other options out there.
549
:And so our whole goal is to enlighten our
clients, just to educate our clients, to
550
:show them that their potential is as large
as they want it to be.
551
:There was something else I was going to
say and I lost it.
552
:I'm so bummed.
553
:I'm sure it'll come back to me though.
554
:It'll come back.
555
:So do you guys, are you dual diagnosis or
is that more of a term that we use in
556
:substance use disorder treatment?
557
:We do not diagnose.
558
:If that's what that means.
559
:I mean, dual diagnosis, I know what that
means, but I don't know what it means in
560
:the situation that you're basically like
treating somebody with like acute mental
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:health issues on top of like active
addiction or active alcoholism or
562
:something.
563
:No.
564
:Okay.
565
:Right.
566
:So, um, we, um, we're not so intensive,
you know, our program is supposed to be
567
:sort of like a building block.
568
:Um, so we do not have like a substance use
counselor on staff.
569
:So if we have someone in the.
570
:current throws of substance use trauma
issues, we won't accept them into our
571
:program.
572
:And simply not because we don't want to, I
would love to.
573
:We don't have Narcan in the office.
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:We do not have a substance use counselor.
575
:So it would not be appropriate for us to
take a client such as that because it
576
:wouldn't be safe.
577
:It would put that client at risk.
578
:It would put their children at risk.
579
:It would put our program and our other
moms at risk.
580
:So, um...
581
:We try to, we would connect them with
other community resources, but they would
582
:not be in our program.
583
:Yeah.
584
:Yeah.
585
:That makes sense.
586
:They'd go someplace like us for 28 days or
30 days.
587
:Take care of that.
588
:That's the most important thing right
there is getting that out of their life
589
:and starting that recovery journey.
590
:It's kind of like, it's kind of like
trying to take new like antidepressants
591
:while like drinking.
592
:lots and lots of alcohol and like
wondering why the antidepressants don't
593
:work.
594
:And it's like, well, you're drinking a
depressive and you're inactive alcoholism.
595
:Our whole goal is to fit the need.
596
:You know, I really don't like this whole
idea of not accepting a client or, you
597
:know, whatever.
598
:And I'm a very big advocate of proper
vocabulary.
599
:It's very important to me that our team
uses correct vocabulary.
600
:So for example, person first language.
601
:You don't have an autistic person.
602
:You have a person who has autism.
603
:Person first language comes first.
604
:That way you don't put this person in a
box.
605
:Like for example, I never say a homeless
person.
606
:I will not say a homeless woman.
607
:I will not say a homeless mom.
608
:I will say a mom or a person experiencing
homeless because homelessness is not
609
:forever.
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:It is a situational experience.
611
:It does not define the person.
612
:And I brought this up for a certain
reason.
613
:I'm trying to remember why.
614
:I think it's the good fit thing.
615
:And so.
616
:We used to call basically our intake
process.
617
:There are a couple steps.
618
:We're a little bit longer than the typical
agency because we're not an emergency
619
:shelter.
620
:We are long -term transitional housing.
621
:So we used to call it interviews.
622
:You had to have three interviews in the
intake process with a few of our staff
623
:members.
624
:First thing I did when I got here is
change that to consultations because we're
625
:not interviewing you to make sure that you
are good enough for us.
626
:We want to make sure that we're good
enough for you too.
627
:We want to make sure that we're a good
fit, that we're not going to have you in
628
:this program and realize, oh, this isn't a
good fit and have to uproot your whole
629
:life again.
630
:So the whole goal of this program and our
consultations and the language that we use
631
:is all to make sure it's a good fit.
632
:We don't want to take someone who is in
the absolute throws of the substance use
633
:issue because we're not readily available
to handle the extensive need, whereas your
634
:program...
635
:Sounds like it definitely would be.
636
:And so we wouldn't want to, it's like
putting on a shoe that doesn't fit.
637
:You know, we just want to make sure it's a
good fit so that it's comfortable for
638
:everybody.
639
:And, you know, the best opportunities to
be successful, you know, we're building,
640
:we are a building block to help you get
there.
641
:We are not here to keep you down or put
you in a box.
642
:Like we are just here to lift you up and
it needs to be a good fit for that.
643
:You know, you have to want it.
644
:So more than we do.
645
:I would buy your motivational interviewing
tapes or something if you did some Tony
646
:Robbins thing.
647
:I love that you know the terminology.
648
:That's good stuff.
649
:Oh, I've seen so many classes.
650
:I use it all the time.
651
:Dude, you can use Motiv.
652
:Anybody can use motivational interviewing.
653
:I don't care if you work in clinical or
whatever setting, but it's such an
654
:effective tool.
655
:Like I find myself using it in daily life.
656
:You know, it's super cool.
657
:So look it up.
658
:Look it up.
659
:There's
660
:plenty of stuff on YouTube about it.
661
:This program, it's 50 -50.
662
:You have to, we cannot, our job is not
here to motivate you.
663
:Obviously we want to recognize that
there's trauma and trauma can sometimes
664
:rear its ugly face in a way that looks
like a lack of motivation or laziness.
665
:And obviously we recognize that we would
never want to pose a barrier.
666
:And at the end of the day, I mean, it's
like you said, it's all about motivation.
667
:It's all about 50 -50.
668
:It's all about, do you want it?
669
:Cause...
670
:I'm not here to want it more than you.
671
:We had a client actually, I'll just tell
you a little funny story.
672
:We had a client come in and like I said,
everyone's path is different, linear.
673
:We had a client for a while who wasn't
paying rent.
674
:She wasn't, she's off track.
675
:She was getting off track and I think she
was talking about it with some other
676
:clients, which can be, it happens, you
know, but it causes us, puts us in a
677
:little bit of a pickle, you know, cause
she's coming in and she's like, well, this
678
:client's not paying rent.
679
:Why do I have to pay rent?
680
:And.
681
:I'm like, well, it's up to you.
682
:When I first met you, I could clearly see
that you were going places.
683
:You were going to make something of
yourself.
684
:I can see it.
685
:I got your energy.
686
:I knew it.
687
:From the frigging start, I saw you.
688
:You're going to kill the game.
689
:So now you're coming to us with this
issue.
690
:And I can understand.
691
:It's frustrating.
692
:And it's up to you.
693
:Do you want to set your bar there?
694
:Do you want to set your bar higher?
695
:It's up to you.
696
:The choice is yours.
697
:You can set your bar wherever you want.
698
:Now, I know where I see your bar because I
know how credible you are and what you can
699
:do.
700
:And like I said, from the moment I met
you, I knew you were right for this
701
:program and you would make something
yourself.
702
:Like, you're amazing.
703
:So, choice is yours.
704
:And I'm a very stubborn person.
705
:I think my dad would probably tell you
that for sure.
706
:I was stubborn growing up, stubborn now.
707
:I don't like for people to tell me what to
do.
708
:I usually do the opposite.
709
:And so I really try to use that
understanding with our clients.
710
:Like, it's all about choice, all about
choice and change.
711
:I don't believe in consequences.
712
:I believe in natural consequences.
713
:I believe in rewarding and natural
consequences.
714
:Consequences that come up based on your
actions, not because that we're telling
715
:you that this is bad or you shouldn't be
doing it that way.
716
:I find that that can be so much more
effective when someone makes the choice on
717
:their own, you know?
718
:Yeah, that's awesome.
719
:I'm glad to see the shift from like, oh,
we're going to teach you by giving you
720
:consequences, telling you you're you're
fucking up.
721
:You know, you're not doing this right
rather than rewarding good behavior.
722
:You know, like that's so much more
effective.
723
:That's why I like to see drug court.
724
:There needs to be more drug court and not
that it's perfect.
725
:But yeah, just being able to reinforce the
positive behaviors, you know, and
726
:empowering them to like make their own
decisions and do the right thing.
727
:Do you want to come work for me?
728
:Like.
729
:Do I come join this team?
730
:Because I love your vibe.
731
:I'm loving this.
732
:You don't have a substance use disorder
counselor.
733
:So yeah.
734
:Yeah, we'll talk.
735
:It's Florida though.
736
:And you don't have AC.
737
:You're not really.
738
:No, we do have AC.
739
:It's just not central.
740
:I just have a box, an AC box over there.
741
:It's noisy.
742
:I swear we have AC.
743
:Our clients would be like, not happy if we
did not have AC.
744
:That sounds bad.
745
:Is it nice where you're at?
746
:Where is this place?
747
:Riviera Beach?
748
:Is that what you said?
749
:Yeah, it's um, gosh, I don't know how
honest I should answer that question.
750
:It's not great.
751
:I lived there.
752
:Can I say because I live there.
753
:We had a stabbing in our gated community
in Riviera Beach.
754
:Is that okay to say?
755
:Do you think that sums it up?
756
:I mean, whatever.
757
:I mean, it's the truth.
758
:Like,
759
:So I'll show you my view really quick.
760
:So I don't know if y 'all can see it, but
here, let me unplug you first.
761
:So I have a view of the street, you know,
right outside campus.
762
:And that's an empty lot out there.
763
:And I feel what, whenever there's an empty
lot, there's danger.
764
:You know, in South Florida, it's like you
turn a left and you're in a great area,
765
:take a right and nod.
766
:So.
767
:Or cross a bridge.
768
:Right.
769
:Northwood is right there.
770
:Northwood's.
771
:they're really developing Northwood, you
know, so.
772
:Have you noticed the homeless problem
getting better or worse in Florida in the
773
:past few years?
774
:So I wouldn't even call it a homeless
problem.
775
:I'd call it a housing problem.
776
:Oh, sorry.
777
:No, not at all.
778
:It's a housing problem.
779
:It's a crisis.
780
:I mean, I'm on, my husband and I both make
decent money.
781
:He makes better money, obviously.
782
:But we both make decent money, dual
income, and we're trying to buy a house.
783
:And what used to be
784
:you know, $500 ,000 is a million dollars.
785
:What used to be $100 ,000 is nonexistent.
786
:You know what I mean?
787
:So it's, it's the housing crisis is a big
problem.
788
:I mean, really, if I can barely afford
things with a joint income with my
789
:husband, how on earth is a single mother
raising children, mouths to feed, going to
790
:school and trying to work?
791
:How is it even possible?
792
:The math doesn't math.
793
:Do you think income is the biggest
detriment to unhoused women or do you
794
:think it's a combination of not having
substance use resources or past trauma?
795
:Interesting.
796
:All right, don't quote me on it, because I
wouldn't say I'm a professional, but I
797
:would definitely say education.
798
:That's a big goal of our program is
education.
799
:We really try to get our clients connected
to vocational, educational resources,
800
:because we really want to broaden the
horizon.
801
:You come in with no GED, you're getting
minimum wage.
802
:So our goal is 90 % of our clients who
successfully graduate from our program
803
:have their GED or equivalent high school
diploma.
804
:So I really feel that expanding education
expands your opportunities.
805
:But it's, I mean, really at the end of the
day, Florida is expensive.
806
:South Florida is insane.
807
:We're on that, one of those lists, you
know, where housing is so expensive, you
808
:want to free and shove your head in a
hole.
809
:You know, don't come to Florida.
810
:Or Colorado, don't come here either.
811
:Well, it's cold there.
812
:I don't know if we want to go there
anyway.
813
:Hey, planning people apparently.
814
:Yeah, I guess so.
815
:I wound up here.
816
:Yeah, I think it's no.
817
:Gone.
818
:What?
819
:Oh, I was just gonna dovetail into what
you're saying.
820
:It's kind of it's income.
821
:It's education.
822
:I mean, it's it's generational.
823
:It's it's where you raised in poverty, you
know, like what was your childhood like
824
:adverse experiences?
825
:Like you said, it's it.
826
:I feel like the worst of it is a
combination of all of that.
827
:So I mean, it's
828
:to treat that, that's gonna be a big thing
to undertake, but I think treating it in
829
:each way rather than just saying, all
right, we gotta solve the income problem.
830
:I mean, that's still not gonna fix it.
831
:It's looking at a person as a whole.
832
:You can't just look at a part of it.
833
:I love that.
834
:Oh my God, you're amazing.
835
:I love where you're at with this.
836
:That's so great.
837
:Thank you.
838
:You have such a great mindset about...
839
:where the issues lie and how to approach
some of these things.
840
:It's not, it is wraparound services.
841
:You cannot look at a symptom by itself.
842
:You have to see the entire setting.
843
:You know what I mean?
844
:You just can't solve a problem with one
piece of the puzzle.
845
:You gotta have all the puzzle pieces.
846
:She's being nice to me.
847
:I don't know what to do.
848
:Thank you.
849
:Right.
850
:This is one of your traumatic responses.
851
:You're not used to it.
852
:I'm going to therapy every week, too.
853
:We're getting there.
854
:Shout out to Micah, my homie.
855
:I love him.
856
:He's coming to my wedding when I have it.
857
:Your therapist that you said would murder
you, your murderous therapist.
858
:Wait, why did I say he'd murder me?
859
:For what?
860
:What did I say?
861
:For calling him a life coach.
862
:Oh, yeah, he would not be happy with that.
863
:He's like, it's just called therapy.
864
:And I'm like, for people who are funny
about that word, you know, therapy,
865
:they're like, something's wrong with me.
866
:I'm like, no, it's just life is hard.
867
:Help you navigate it.
868
:So yeah, him Micah.
869
:Amazing.
870
:Go Micah.
871
:My man Stephanie.
872
:She's cool.
873
:So we have about five minutes left or so.
874
:So if you wanted to give a shout out to
any
875
:other programs that you think are doing
good work, any links available or anything
876
:where people can get involved and help you
guys.
877
:This is your moment.
878
:Okay, so I want to hit two things on there
because I actually read one of these
879
:questions before we got on here and it was
about who do I look up to most?
880
:I really I'm very excited for this
question.
881
:I want to hit these two people.
882
:Number one, Ricky Aiken.
883
:He is from the streets.
884
:He is making incredible
885
:freaking change in this community.
886
:Inner City Innovators, amazing program,
doing amazing work.
887
:And then we've got Jeff DiMario, who is,
other than my husband, maybe the love of
888
:my life.
889
:Love that guy.
890
:He runs Vita Nova, a program for youth.
891
:Incredible program, incredible guy.
892
:If I want to be someone when I grow up,
it's him.
893
:To have authentic and crucial
conversations from a place of love is a
894
:skill that I am like trying so hard to
have.
895
:And he just naturally is so amazing at it.
896
:So shout out to both them.
897
:They're incredible inner city innovators
and Vita Nova, amazing CEOs, amazing
898
:programs, just properly amazing people
doing amazing stuff.
899
:Our program, you can find us on Facebook,
Instagram, although we do need a little
900
:facelift on Instagram and Facebook.
901
:So if any social media interns out there
want to help us, we'd be very, very
902
:grateful.
903
:Holy Ground PBC, we are interfaith, we are
not faith -based, and we're really doing
904
:very good work.
905
:You guys can donate, we have a donate page
on our website.
906
:We're in a desperate need for volunteers,
second and fourth Wednesdays of each month
907
:we have life skills and girl talk classes
and we need babysitters for our kids.
908
:Sometimes our moms are trying to work nine
to five jobs.
909
:daycare is closed at 530.
910
:They have to take two buses and they can't
pick up their kids in time.
911
:So we have a serious need for babysitters
and just like people who are ready to be
912
:here and disrupt the systems that suppress
our most at risk.
913
:That's what we're looking for.
914
:I love that.
915
:It's such a cool mission statement.
916
:Not good.
917
:Right?
918
:Yeah.
919
:It's like my tagline.
920
:Did you come up with that?
921
:I'm trying to remember how it's on my
LinkedIn.
922
:I've had it on my LinkedIn for so long.
923
:I want to take credit for it because it's
so good.
924
:I just, I'm sure I've seen it somewhere, I
would say, but can I just take credit for
925
:it for it anyway?
926
:Yeah, it's yours.
927
:Yeah.
928
:Thank you.
929
:You know, the reason I wrote that is
because I felt like saying our mission
930
:statement to, you know, just wasn't strong
enough.
931
:Like literally we are disrupting the
systems that suppress our most at risk
932
:populations.
933
:That's just moving, you know?
934
:Motivational.
935
:Even.
936
:Yeah, it goes along with your motivational
speaking.
937
:I love that.
938
:Yeah.
939
:How can like a normal person help?
940
:Let's say they they can't donate right
now, but they want to help.
941
:What's something that they can do even if
they don't live there?
942
:Like how about like the way that they
treat the on -house population, for
943
:example, or something that they could do
population?
944
:I love that.
945
:That's so good.
946
:Um,
947
:Recognize your language.
948
:Be empathetic.
949
:Remember that it's situational and not
forever.
950
:You can be that one person that makes a
difference in someone's life by giving
951
:them a smile, looking them in the face.
952
:Even if you don't have money, a smile and
a good luck, I hope you're doing okay
953
:today.
954
:Freaking human respect is what I would
say.
955
:And if you're local and you're a female
and you want a mentor, come on over.
956
:Hell yeah.
957
:Hell yeah.
958
:So I got any closers from you or do you
have any questions for us?
959
:Well, I had one which is kind of
pretentious, but I wanted to know if you
960
:had read anything good recently.
961
:Or do you have a book that you love?
962
:Yes.
963
:Okay.
964
:I'm reading one right now that I didn't
think I was going to like that much.
965
:My husband is so perfect.
966
:He every once in a while he'll gift me a
book and I love the books he gets me
967
:because they're kind of...
968
:Out of my normal vibe, I just really love
Greek mythology, so I read a lot of that.
969
:He'll throw some random stuff in there and
it's hit or miss, but this most recent one
970
:is so freaking moving.
971
:It's called The Last Lecture.
972
:I'm an idiot for not knowing the author
and I'm sorry, Google it, it's out there.
973
:The Last Lecture, and it's about this
professor, this lecturer who was diagnosed
974
:with terminal pancreatic cancer, and he
has the opportunity to give one last
975
:lecture.
976
:And he asks, he's really struggling to
find the answer.
977
:And like, how do you possibly...
978
:culminate life into one last lecture and
he brought it down to what makes me
979
:unique.
980
:And that question is obviously very
thought provoking for everyone internally.
981
:And then he says the thing that makes him
unique is that he has accomplished every
982
:single one of his childhood dreams.
983
:And then he goes through the list of
childhood dreams, each of his chapters,
984
:and it's pretty phenomenal.
985
:And it just makes you think, what are your
childhood dreams?
986
:What did you dream about when you were a
kid and where are you at now?
987
:And how does that correlate and connect?
988
:And what are the parallels there?
989
:And
990
:This whole idea of positivity and family,
you know, he has a family and they're all
991
:dealing with this diagnosis and they're
respecting his wishes of throwing himself
992
:into his last lecture.
993
:So it's just this beautiful combination of
family, faith, faith in yourself,
994
:recognizing your dreams, what makes you
unique and just taking on life.
995
:So it's really good.
996
:I haven't finished it yet.
997
:It's really, really good.
998
:I love that.
999
:That's a good answer.
:
00:48:29,786 --> 00:48:32,046
I'll look into it.
:
00:48:32,046 --> 00:48:34,146
It's so uplifting.
:
00:48:34,346 --> 00:48:34,986
It's shocking.
:
00:48:34,986 --> 00:48:36,686
I didn't think it would be so uplifting.
:
00:48:36,686 --> 00:48:38,326
It's so uplifting.
:
00:48:38,326 --> 00:48:42,646
I'm like one of those people who's like
itching to read my book when I get home.
:
00:48:43,046 --> 00:48:44,166
You know, Hey, this is you.
:
00:48:44,166 --> 00:48:45,006
You do that.
:
00:48:45,006 --> 00:48:46,296
Yeah, she does that.
:
00:48:46,296 --> 00:48:48,526
It's great to see it.
:
00:48:48,526 --> 00:48:50,426
Yeah.
:
00:48:50,486 --> 00:48:52,226
How about y 'all any like book
suggestions?
:
00:48:52,226 --> 00:48:54,166
I'm totally open.
:
00:48:54,946 --> 00:48:56,046
Well,
:
00:48:56,046 --> 00:49:03,086
I've been reading a little bit of George
Saunders recently, and I don't know too
:
00:49:03,086 --> 00:49:03,686
much about him.
:
00:49:03,686 --> 00:49:08,286
He's a professor at Syracuse, but he
writes all these little weird short
:
00:49:08,286 --> 00:49:09,056
stories.
:
00:49:09,056 --> 00:49:12,536
I think he won the MacArthur Genius Grant
or something.
:
00:49:12,536 --> 00:49:18,006
One of my friends recommended him to me,
and he's really funny and really witty.
:
00:49:18,006 --> 00:49:22,478
And he has this short story called Fox
Eight, which is like...
:
00:49:22,478 --> 00:49:27,878
the weirdest thing that you'll ever read,
but moving and also hilarious.
:
00:49:27,878 --> 00:49:32,798
And if you look that up, it's really, it's
really something.
:
00:49:32,798 --> 00:49:33,728
That sounds good.
:
00:49:33,728 --> 00:49:34,918
I will look it up.
:
00:49:36,654 --> 00:49:38,894
Yeah.
:
00:49:39,154 --> 00:49:40,114
Cool.
:
00:49:40,114 --> 00:49:45,314
If you had to bring what, like an album,
this is the worst last question ever, but
:
00:49:45,314 --> 00:49:46,394
I didn't look at anything.
:
00:49:46,394 --> 00:49:49,844
But like one album to what is it?
:
00:49:49,844 --> 00:49:53,434
The proverbial desert island that you're
just going to die in and you can't pull
:
00:49:53,434 --> 00:49:56,934
some Tom Hanks shit and you have to listen
to this on repeat forever.
:
00:49:56,934 --> 00:49:57,834
Oh my God.
:
00:49:57,834 --> 00:49:58,454
You know what?
:
00:49:58,454 --> 00:49:59,384
I was really impressed.
:
00:49:59,384 --> 00:50:00,554
I had a book answer.
:
00:50:00,554 --> 00:50:02,394
Now you're killing me with this.
:
00:50:02,594 --> 00:50:04,274
It's off the cuff.
:
00:50:04,274 --> 00:50:05,518
It's off the cuff.
:
00:50:05,518 --> 00:50:08,478
I am the shallowest music person on the
face of the planet.
:
00:50:08,478 --> 00:50:10,298
I'm just like, whatever.
:
00:50:10,958 --> 00:50:11,778
You know what?
:
00:50:11,778 --> 00:50:13,258
What song I would die on?
:
00:50:13,258 --> 00:50:14,658
American Pie.
:
00:50:14,978 --> 00:50:17,958
I just know every single word, every
single lyric.
:
00:50:17,958 --> 00:50:19,038
I don't know.
:
00:50:19,038 --> 00:50:20,338
It's as a kid.
:
00:50:20,338 --> 00:50:20,928
I don't know.
:
00:50:20,928 --> 00:50:22,258
It's one song.
:
00:50:22,838 --> 00:50:23,938
I wish I had time to think of this
question.
:
00:50:23,938 --> 00:50:25,698
Don McQueen, right?
:
00:50:25,698 --> 00:50:26,818
Yeah.
:
00:50:26,818 --> 00:50:27,828
That's so funny.
:
00:50:27,828 --> 00:50:30,038
Do you want to close singing it?
:
00:50:30,038 --> 00:50:30,838
Bye.
:
00:50:30,858 --> 00:50:33,538
I don't want to hear my voice.
:
00:50:33,582 --> 00:50:34,702
It's shocking.
:
00:50:34,702 --> 00:50:35,152
I'm scary.
:
00:50:35,152 --> 00:50:38,182
I could really send my ABCs with a tune.
:
00:50:38,302 --> 00:50:39,102
Cool.
:
00:50:39,102 --> 00:50:40,282
Well, thank you so much.
:
00:50:40,282 --> 00:50:41,692
This was really awesome.
:
00:50:41,692 --> 00:50:44,602
I think we got into some good stuff.
:
00:50:44,602 --> 00:50:47,022
We got into ways people can help.
:
00:50:47,182 --> 00:50:49,422
So thanks for taking the time to do this.
:
00:50:49,422 --> 00:50:50,662
We appreciate it.
:
00:50:50,662 --> 00:50:51,762
Yeah, it's a good vibe.
:
00:50:51,762 --> 00:50:53,762
I really enjoyed it.
:
00:50:53,822 --> 00:50:59,302
And I just think it's really cool because
we're really trying to connect with a
:
00:50:59,302 --> 00:51:01,042
younger population.
:
00:51:01,422 --> 00:51:02,926
We have a lot of older...
:
00:51:02,926 --> 00:51:06,106
women and men who are involved with our
program, but I'd really like to see some
:
00:51:06,106 --> 00:51:11,806
of my community, you know, 20s, 30s,
whatever, you know, a little bit more
:
00:51:11,806 --> 00:51:16,246
involved in our program and understanding
that just because you might not be
:
00:51:16,246 --> 00:51:22,106
financially readily available to help in
that way, like there's so much opportunity
:
00:51:22,106 --> 00:51:27,886
to be involved and to help and just to
even show your support.
:
00:51:27,886 --> 00:51:31,662
I'm really grateful this is gonna go out
to some of the younger kids out there.
:
00:51:31,662 --> 00:51:33,542
I sound like an old person.
:
00:51:33,962 --> 00:51:37,912
Just going out to my community, you know,
I don't have a lot of resources for that.
:
00:51:37,912 --> 00:51:42,522
And so it's really nice to have people
like you who are messaging me and saying
:
00:51:42,522 --> 00:51:46,422
that you want to show that, you know, the
world is not as dark as it may seem.
:
00:51:46,422 --> 00:51:49,222
And there are opportunities out there and
get involved.
:
00:51:49,222 --> 00:51:51,702
It feels good to give back.
:
00:51:51,702 --> 00:51:55,442
So I'm excited to have that population in
the community.
:
00:51:55,462 --> 00:51:55,662
Yeah.
:
00:51:55,662 --> 00:51:59,942
And you can throw them our way to if you
have anybody who would be good on this or
:
00:51:59,942 --> 00:52:01,294
anybody listening that.
:
00:52:01,294 --> 00:52:04,154
has something in mind, Bloom's scrolling
podcast.
:
00:52:04,154 --> 00:52:06,894
That's our Instagram handle and also our
Gmail.
:
00:52:06,894 --> 00:52:09,054
So just shoot us a message.
:
00:52:09,233 --> 00:52:09,674
Absolutely.
:
00:52:09,674 --> 00:52:14,064
And then how long does it take to like get
out there?
:
00:52:14,064 --> 00:52:15,444
How long is it?
:
00:52:15,444 --> 00:52:19,494
Like three or four years, I think.
:
00:52:20,054 --> 00:52:23,790
Well, you have to edit it and you're not,
you're in between.
:
00:52:23,790 --> 00:52:25,710
positions right now.
:
00:52:25,710 --> 00:52:28,510
So if it's not done by tomorrow, I'm going
to be.
:
00:52:28,510 --> 00:52:30,560
I'll have it done within by the end of the
week.
:
00:52:30,560 --> 00:52:32,350
I'm going to, I'll come to that.
:
00:52:32,350 --> 00:52:35,470
I'd love to post this on our Facebook or
whatever.
:
00:52:35,470 --> 00:52:36,730
You know, this is super cool.
:
00:52:36,730 --> 00:52:37,910
It would be so cool.
:
00:52:37,910 --> 00:52:38,520
Yeah.
:
00:52:38,520 --> 00:52:39,010
Perfect.
:
00:52:39,010 --> 00:52:39,250
Yeah.
:
00:52:39,250 --> 00:52:40,990
We'll, we'll send it to you first.
:
00:52:40,990 --> 00:52:41,700
Send it to you first.
:
00:52:41,700 --> 00:52:42,890
That would be great.
:
00:52:42,890 --> 00:52:43,870
Yeah.
:
00:52:43,870 --> 00:52:45,670
Thank you so much.
:
00:52:45,670 --> 00:52:46,390
Yeah.
:
00:52:46,390 --> 00:52:48,060
This is awesome.
:
00:52:48,060 --> 00:52:50,926
What a cool origin story to like.
:
00:52:50,926 --> 00:52:54,986
Yeah, from nightclubs to this, anything's
possible.
:
00:52:55,766 --> 00:52:58,466
Oh my gosh, that's another funny thing.
:
00:52:58,466 --> 00:53:04,446
It's like, you're kind of from my past
environment, not my past environment, a
:
00:53:04,446 --> 00:53:08,396
different part of myself, you know, and
it's really cool.
:
00:53:08,396 --> 00:53:10,696
This is what I was telling my husband and
some of my coworkers.
:
00:53:10,696 --> 00:53:15,406
It's really cool to be able to bring these
two parts of my life together, which I
:
00:53:15,406 --> 00:53:16,816
feel I've been struggling with.
:
00:53:16,816 --> 00:53:18,342
I've been wanting to.
:
00:53:18,702 --> 00:53:20,282
join these parts of my life.
:
00:53:20,282 --> 00:53:23,262
And I feel that you've really given me the
opportunity to do that.
:
00:53:23,262 --> 00:53:25,242
So I'm really, I'm like eternally
grateful.
:
00:53:25,242 --> 00:53:29,182
This is so cool that I have the ability,
you guys have provided me with the ability
:
00:53:29,182 --> 00:53:29,932
to do that.
:
00:53:29,932 --> 00:53:31,362
So thank you.
:
00:53:31,622 --> 00:53:32,822
Yeah, amazing.
:
00:53:32,822 --> 00:53:34,962
Thank you so much.
:
00:53:34,962 --> 00:53:36,582
All right, see you guys later.
:
00:53:36,582 --> 00:53:37,472
See you later.
:
00:53:37,472 --> 00:53:38,382
Bye.